Since growing up I have always heard the phrase, “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”. A two separate universe has been created for both the gender with several adjoining norms. Men are strong, competitive, and lecherous while women are designated to be fickle, confusing, and always in need of love.
Yes, we women want love, we are at times difficult to comprehend, but only if you pay attention closely, men can also understand what we want and need. After all, we are not rocket science!!!! So here are the 7 most important things every woman wants men to know.
1. We Do Not Come From Venus!
First of all, stop categorizing us!! We belong to one planet. Women are not different species. Both men and women come from the ovum and the sperm. The only difference is in our physical features.
2. Your Respect For Us Is Costlier Than The Rock You Can Buy For Us
You can have all the money in the world, even propose us with a big tiffany ring, but your character will shine better the carat of the rock if you respect us and treat us as equals. We are not a property to be showed off or a deal that can be closed with a diamond ring. We are ‘human beings’ too, just like you.
3. Wearing Pants In The Relationship
Women are considered to be fickle; women are unable to make an important decision as supposed by few men. We should not ask the boys out or propose them first, and if we do, we are called wearing THE PANTS. Relationship stands on equal partnership. Taking decisions does not make us less as a woman or you less as a man.
4. Our Hymen Is Not Proportionally Related To Our Character
First of all, let me clarify the fact that women also have sexual arousal. YES, WE WANT IT TOO. But stop judging us by our past. Just because women had more partners does not make her easy, and if she has not had any sexual activity, it does not make her a prude. We can be promiscuous and loyal. It is not we who are impure. It is just your patriarchal thoughts. Period.
5. Being ‘A girl’ Is Not Weak
Men are not supposed to cry. They are the epitome of iron will and strength. They are unafraid. But if they are scared, they are called a ‘PUSSY’, or if they cry, we hear, “stop acting like a girl.” Like ‘a girl’ is not a sign of weakness. It is empowering. Yes, our pussy gets a whole human out while your scrotum can bring you down to your knees by one hard kick.
6. EVERYDAY IS NOT THAT DAY OF THE MONTH!
Men, please understand our anger or emotional quotient is not a coefficient of our menstrual cycle. We are angry because we are angry if we are having cravings, it is because we are hungry. We have emotional turbulence because we are humans too!!
7. We Can Also Head The Steering Wheels
It is a common myth that women cannot drive. Well, busted. We can drive as well as any race cars. Come with us for a road trip, and surely you will not die. Not every woman is clueless behind the wheels.
And the last thing is that we are all different, and it is what makes us great!!!! So cheers to all the women who are redefining perception towards women by challenging stereotypes.